Before my Mistress and I unfortunately parted ways we had the opportunity to feature in a documentary on Chastity that was being filmed for BBC 3! As it has now been aired (a while ago, I don’t seem to have been able to find the time to write this) I am able to break my silence on it.
The timing of this was a bit awkward, after a couple of months of discussions finally a filming date was found after I had already indicated to Mistress about my wish for us to part ways. We still continued to do the programme though as we wanted to try and show some positive aspects of the fetish, how it can be fun, and also as it might have made good advertising for her.
The day itself was quite fun. I was very nervous as here I was meeting two strangers (a woman I’d spoken to a few times and the camera man who was going to be the main person asking questions (though it was done in a way as if I was just talking). They were both really great though, putting me at ease and made me feel like things were normal – they genuinely just seemed curious without seeming to judge me.
We chatted for what seemed like ages, before we took a journey to Mistress Nikky’s dungeon. When there they chatted for a while before we had a small session, then they chatted to us both after. I can’t be complementary enough about the team at ‘The Connected Set’ for how at ease I think we both, but definitely I felt.
However when the actual show was finished I would be lying if I didn’t say I was a little disappointed with the end product. It was a little shorter than we’d been lead to believe, and their need for a narrative (understandable) meant that so much had been cut regarding the bond me and Mistress Nikky genuinely shared. Still, they did a good job of keeping me anonymous and hopefully people saw it/gained a better understanding of chastity, and having watched it got hooked on Mistress Nikky as I think everyone should!
It’s no longer on BBC 3, it must have had a really short release time, but you can view it on Youtube here: